. 26 years old . singapore .
. music lover . loves movies n dramas . reading .
. singing . cycling . pool . travelling . sleeping .
. emotional . worrier . shy . adventurous . weird, lol .
Sunday, June 04, 2006
Dear Lord
please give b the wisdom and skills to do well for the 2 papers today, and
please stay by sl for her operation tomorrow, keep her safe and sound
amen
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a few of my close friends are in the midst of breaking up, or having frustrations and have the intention to break up.
its fate that brings 2 persons together and it takes alot of factors to keep 2 persons together.
no 2 persons are exactly the same, thus there's bound to be conflicts now and then.
i'm someone who doesn't like to argue.
i don't see how it helps the already existent problem(s).
in fact, it just makes things worse.
you should just think things thru with a clear mind.
other than thinking for yourself, you gotta also put yourself in your partner's shoes.
sit down, talk to each other in a nice and calm manner.
work out what can be done to improve the issue.
how much you value this relationship?
of course, all these are easier said than done.
many people tend to raise their voices and say things they don't mean when in a heated argument.
many say they can't control it when they're angry or upset.
for me, i'm especially scared and sad during such moments.
it really hurts.
i'm no saint myself, there are times i lose my temper as well, but such times are rare.
i'm blessed with alot more patience and control in such situations than many of my peers.
anyway, if all these 'discussions' have been done countless times, and the issues don't seem to get resolved.
one tends to get mentally tired and lose track of whats the purpose of being in an unhappy relationship.
maybe, it'll then be time to reassess the whole relationship.
if its worth keeping it going?
if both parties would be better off with someone else?
nobody likes to feel pain and get hurt.
and some tend to become very self-protective.
but ask yourself, should you give this relationship another chance?
or have you had enough?
listening to: keith urban - tonight i wanna cry
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